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Where Do You Go Missing?

Most women come to me certain the problem is communication, or compatibility, or something specific he's doing. What I usually find is a woman who abandoned herself a little at a time, in ways that felt completely reasonable. Keeping the peace instead of saying what she wanted. Making excuses for him. Falling for who he could become. Making herself so needed that leaving stopped feeling possible.

"As long as I stayed focused on him, I never had to feel how scared I was of not being loved."

Nobody abandons herself all at once. It happens in small trades, and the quiz below will show you which trade you've been making and what it's costing you.

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